Monday, December 7, 2015

Puzzle is fully FUNDED!!!!


Thanks to Noonday we have fully funded our home study update of $500.00!!! If you want to order anything contact brookevg.noonday@gmail.com . Click on Noonday link to shop. You have until Dec. 15th. Ten percent of sales will go to our adoption fund. They make great gifts!



THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU!!!!!
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!


Whirl wind...

We have moved  to another state and we have new jobs, well everything is new!  It has been a whirl wind but its Christmas and we are feeling settled. Finally!!!!! We just updated our home study this week. In adoption when you change anything major you have to update your home study. That means we are ready to take on parenthood! So here we are. Closer to family and ready for our family to grow. Waiting is the hardest part but there is a peace inside of Tim and I. It's been two years waiting and we have been close to bringing a baby home once but I guess it wasn't our time yet. We truly believe that God has written this story. Its been difficult at times but the love and support we have experienced from our family and friends has been so wonderful. We are excited to see what's in store for our family. I know God will lead us to the perfect match.  I watched this video today and I could relate with so much of what this couple was saying that tears were rolling down my cheeks. What a wonderful story! Enjoy!

Thursday, February 19, 2015

787 puzzle pieces funded 213 more to go!

Thank you Nancy Davis! 

From a child's perspective

I want to portray adoption from all sides. This is a short film is from a kids perspective. The acting is very cheesy but it's a good true story. Enjoy.

 

His Hand Leads Me

If the Lord delights in a man's way, He makes his steps firm; through he stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with His hand. Psalm 37: 23-24

There are a lot of unknowns in our life. So many moving variables that sometimes in my human moments I worry and fear. Infertility and adoption has really made me build my intimacy with the Lord. Thank goodness because I always need him. There is no friend in this world that that can bear my fears more than Him. Tim and I are going out on a limb with Him. He promises us that this is the safest place to be. So as we edge out on the limb and continue on this adventure I keep my eyes on Him as we step out in faith. I can say that while gripping His hand to steady myself and as I look toward the horizon and I'm enjoying the view from this new perspective of new possibilities. In this new environment we are alert and I communicate with you more regularly than before. I am not ashamed because this is my journey back to you. I know my strengthening relationship with you gives you pleasure and your hand is there supporting me. Overly familiar surroundings many feel more secure but I know I have been self reliant and have forgotten about you. Please don't let me forget that wherever you lead that You are the shelter and Your presence will keep us safe. You have a plan.

And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart. Jeremiah 29:13


Monday, January 12, 2015

782 puzzle pieces funded 218 more to go!!!

Thank you Ted and Andrea Wise for your donation!!!

Not lost on me

As much as we dislike waiting to be placed with a child, there is a woman making a hard decision on who to give a precious life or lives to. That's why I really like this quote from Jody Landers.


There are two tragic losses before a beautiful gain.

Here is a video of an adoption through the eyes of a birth mom. Watch her explain her selfless decision. She was a part of an open adoption. This is where the birth mom is a part of the child's life in some way. The relationship can be as open is the birth mom coming the birthday parties to letters every month. This decision is between the birth mom and adoptive parents. I have no idea what our open adoption will look like. 




Monday, January 5, 2015

787 pieces funded 213 more to go!!!

If you are having trouble using paypal, just go to their site (https://www.paypal.com/) and click on "send" on the top left and put in our email: gretapitcher@gmail.com and your amount.


Thank you Luke Bing and Laura Robionson! This is the card that was attached to Luke's gift to his teacher. I had to share.


2014 is a wrap-onto 2015!

We had a great "winter" break! We visited with so many people dear to us. We celebrated and ate wonderful food. We are really getting good at savoring those moments. Maybe it comes with age. LOL!



We are tired but glad to be back to a schedule (well, kind of). We have many things we want to achieve in 2015 and one of them is parenthood.  We are waiting for the stars to align…

But,
It’s hard waiting.

 I’m not good at waiting because I think I could always be doing something to make the situation better or move quicker. I’m always asking is there anything else I can be doing!? There is always something of course.  Poor Rhonda our adoption specialist, I’m checking in every month with her to hear about any changes or asking her questions. In 2014 I joined an adoption forum.  It’s been so good to hear other stories and I’m getting great advice on any questions and situations I’m wondering about. One piece of advice I received was to write a letter to all the doctor’s offices in the area so they are aware of a couple looking to adopt.  Never know. We were going to start Foster to Adopt classes this month but our schedule does not allow it. Well, Tim's doesn't. Maybe next month.  If you know of any adoption opportunities please think of the Pitchers (gretapitcher@gmail.com)! 

Other than that we are staying busy!  First Monday of 2015 wasn't half bad. :)

Peace,

Thursday, December 4, 2014

Funded pieces

Thank you Pat and Janet Luck in memory of Mary Jo Roeger, The Pacanowski Family, The Lillie Family, Duffing Family, Sarah Nelsen, Jackie Garis, Kate Pitcher, Chanda Peal, Jessica Flowers, The Sheltons, Kit Pitcher, Mrs. Vicki, Laura Robison, Sherry Griffin, Amanda Dawkins, Frances Perkins, Kim Jackson, Ronda Boulton, Ali Perkins, Kayla Vickers, Gloria Killion, Amanda Bailey, Linda Mann, Brooke Garrigan, Rev. Lea Griffin, Michelle Bing, Nelda Flowers, Meagan Choate, Karen Beasley, Hannah Rogers, Anne Pitcher and Julie Barbieri!

Ivey's Adoption Story


I'm back!

Well, I’m a little behind in updating the blog but LIFE has gotten in the way! Apparently God thinks I can handle more than I think I can. Isn't that always the case?  As I was dealing with a horrible sinus infection and some other things, I totally missed Adoption Awareness Month in November! Happy belated Adoption Month people! We do have an update, we are going to take Foster to Adopt(PATH) classes starting in January. We will continue to wait for a child through Bethany Christian Services but are going to open another door. We want to make as many paths open to bringing home our child or children. More classes! Oh yea.


 Have you noticed our puzzle pieces are being funded left and right!?! How cool is that?

 THANK YOU!!!!! 

Monday, October 6, 2014

Trusting Him

My Reverend’s sermon was on Ezekiel 37:1-14 this Sunday. It is a story of a great prophet, Ezekiel who lived thousands of years ago. Some of the stories about Ezekiel are very bizarre you could say.
Let's use our imaginations. We have to picture a very strange scene and it might help us if we think of the movie The Lion King. Have you seen that movie? Think of the scary scene where Simba, the young lion, is lost in a scary place. He finds himself surrounded by lots of animal bones. Do you have that picture in your mind now? If not here’s a picture:




Now instead of Simba walking around among all these bones, picture a man from the Bible. That's our prophet Ezekiel. In the Bible, Ezekiel finds himself in a desert valley surrounded by dry bones. How did he get there? Well, he didn't just get up one morning and think "I know, I'll go looking for a place that is full of bones!" No, according to the Bible, Ezekiel is sort of teleported into this barren valley full of bones. He just finds himself there. He must feel lonely and scared. It is just him and the bones. But don’t forget about God, he's there.

God asks Ezekiel a question. He says, "Ezekiel, can these old dry bones live?" Ezekiel doesn't know how to answer this question. After all, he's talking to God. So Ezekiel answers very cleverly, "God, You know the answer?"

He's right! God does know the answer and God tells Ezekiel that he will make these old dry bones live again. He will add muscle and skin to them and breathe life into them and what appears to be dead will walk the earth again. And they will be God's people. Just as water brings the parched earth to life, God's Word and living water of His Spirit will bring dry souls new life. Isaiah 44:3 says, "For I will pour water upon him that is thirsty, and floods upon the dry ground: I will pour my spirit upon thy seed, and my blessing upon thine offspring." There’s song that comes to my mind while I write this. Carrie Underwood’s new song  Something in the Water! Listen to it. You’ll like it. It’s about God’s power to change His people for the better when you trust in something bigger than yourself, HIM.

As I go to this adoption process I feel like a pile of dry bones sometimes going through the motions. I think it will never happen.  I can’t even expect a miracle because my faith is so dry.  But a kind word, an inspiring story, encouragement from Tim, a friend or a stranger will breathe hope into my bones.
You expect the adoption process to go fast when you are not going through it. There’s a ton of kids to adopt, right? But until you live it or lived close to a friend or family member going through it you just don’t know. You have paperwork out of your ears. You wait..and wait…and pray to God for strength to keep going. Oddly enough I pray for faith. He gives me more practice in faithfulness.

Whatever I ask for, that is what I always get from the good Lord.  He keeps asking me are you ready? But I’m still waiting for that baby. I understand He’ll provide this baby we are hoping for in His time. God knows everything! He doesn't ask us questions because He's been stumped; He asks in order to get us to think. Just like the ancient philosopher Socrates used to teach by asking questions, so too God asks people questions in order to arouse their thought processes and to get them to analyze the situation. He’s always asking, “Now, Greta what are you going to do now? Do you think that is wise? Why are you doing this? Now why do you think you feel this way?” Our finished adoption story is going to be a wonderful story full of questions answered and unanswered,  I’m sure. Remember God uses His people to tell His story and share His word. He sure is using me. If you are struggling with something I’m sure you are not alone. Tell your story.

This story from Ezekiel is a reminder for me that with God all things are possible! I am trying to take moments to just live in the moment and look at the beauty in this life full of tiny miracles. See, even if we are not holding a baby right now miracles are happening in our lives.  Here are a few little miracles:
1)      We have fundraised almost our whole adoption home study fee!! Thank you!!
2)      Our friends and family are always telling us about adoption opportunities they hear about through friends or coworkers. In the last six moments we have heard about two babies that were put up for adoption. None of them worked out but we love that we have ears out there that are networking for us. Keep those ears open.
3)      We are both strengthening our relationship with God in one way or another.
4)      Our relationship continues to grow with each other in a positive way. We both take turns building each other up when one of us is down. We appreciate each other more than ever before and understand how lucky we are to have each other. It’s been a lot of hard work but a blessing.
5)      We have awesome family and friends that love us and are ready to love this child or children as soon as they are Pitchers.
6)      I’m a changed woman. My heart is more open than it’s ever been and I’m stronger in all areas of my life. God is leading down paths that I could never imagine. I appreciate more. My smile is brighter on most days. Must be something in the Tennessee water!


I will never have everything I want, but with God I have everything that I need. 

I need to remember to...

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding." Proverbs 3:5

Sunday, August 17, 2014

371 pieces funded 629 pieces to go!

THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!

I have been behind writing names on puzzle pieces. Here is my attempt to make it up to y'all! 


Thank you Steve Moore, Donna Powell, Patsy Powell, Patsy Tidwell, Jane Yarbo, Judy Gregory, Jane Lamb, Amy Davis, Tony Green, Alma Ruth Micheal, Linda and Cherry Davis!


Thank you Ann Marie Ruhlin, Hilary Atchley, Don and Verna Tousley, Kayla Vickers, The Pitchers and Chanda Peal!!!


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The Starfish Story

This last week I was invited to see Leigh Anne Tuohy speak in my community for a local organization. You might know her, she is the mother of Michael Oher and the real mother from the movie The Blind Side. According to her the movie was pretty accurate. She calls it a miracle that Hollywood didn't screw it up! She was such a passionate woman. Here is a video about from a little over a year ago, that showcases her passion.


 Her message that night  was to turn around when you see something that is not right. See the morning she saw Michael walking on the side of the road all the bells and whistles went going off in her head. So she turned around. She told us she wasn’t looking to adopt a kid that morning, just help this kid out, simply because he needed it. This is her journey and she uses her journey to help others as you can see in the video. Leigh Anne continued to remind us that “God uses simple people to tell stories”. She told us you don’t have to save the world but do something kind always. She ended the night with The Starfish story.
Imagine all the Michael Oher’s out there that never get a chance. We can’t all go adopt every child that needs us but we all can do something that makes a difference in someone’s life. What if everyone threw one starfish back in?

 What a difference we would make!

Thursday, July 31, 2014

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

351 puzzle pieces funded 649 pieces to go!


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WAIT


Everyone wants to know what step we are on in the adoption process. We are in the waiting to be selected part of an adoption.  I found this pin on Pinterest and thought perfection! A couple of posts ago I let everything go to the Lord. You can’t force this process and at that time I was finally ready to release control of every little detail of the adoption process because you see we have done everything we could. So I am ready to watch God work His ways and I've invited God to work in my heart. Now we trust God to fulfill His plans. As we wait we are allowing God to do “His thing” through us.

So what have we been up to?

Well…

First, football is up and running full speed! Tim is busy and so is every football coach and player in America.

Second, school is starting so we both are getting ready for the new school year and attending many back to school meetings. I’m excited to start a new school year and meet all my new kindergartners.

Third, Tim and I have started a couple community infertility support group that will meet once a month.

Fourth, I’m a part committee at church that is doing some great things to reach out to the community within and outside our doors.  Oh I’m also teaching Wednesday ACTS evening children’s church for the 3rd-5th grade kiddos this year.

Last, enjoying all the blessings we have received like each other and our furry four legged friend, Louie. Happy birthday to both today!!




As you can see we are not doing anything. We continue to save every penny (literally we have a jar) and fill out grant applications and hope to be awarded some grant money to pay for the remaining cost of the adoption.  We have been so blessed with the donations from our friends and family so far.