Not lost on me

As much as we dislike waiting to be placed with a child, there is a woman making a hard decision on who to give a precious life or lives to. That's why I really like this quote from Jody Landers.

There are two tragic losses before a beautiful gain.

Here is a video of an adoption through the eyes of a birth mom. Watch her explain her selfless decision. She was a part of an open adoption. This is where the birth mom is a part of the child's life in some way. The relationship can be as open is the birth mom coming the birthday parties to letters every month. This decision is between the birth mom and adoptive parents. I have no idea what our open adoption will look like.